La’Tosha, tell us what it is like having 12 grandchildren.
It’s full of joy! My house and my heart stay full. I have 11 granddaughters—my queens—and one grandson, my king. They are all so different, and I love that. Their personalities, their talents, the way they think—it amazes me. I appreciate every single moment with them. When they walk through my door, and their faces light up, that does something to my heart.
What are some things you enjoy doing together?
Oh, we stay busy! I pick them up at different times for lunch dates, movie nights, spa days, and paint parties. We go to the park, church, and sometimes we just hang out and talk. I love watching some of them play basketball and cheer—it makes me so proud. Being present matters to me. I don’t just want to hear about their lives; I want to experience life with them.
What has being a grandmother taught you about yourself?
It taught me patience and perspective. When you’re younger, you’re trying to figure things out as you go. Now, I feel more settled. I’ve learned to slow down and really appreciate the moments. I don’t rush their stories. I love knowing every detail about the movies they watched, their day at school, or whatever it is that makes them feel happy, encouraged, and loved. I don’t overlook the small things. Grandmotherhood has softened me in the best way.
You’re also a teacher. How does that shape your role as Granny?
It shapes it a lot. I teach third grade at Montgomery Christian School, and two of my grandchildren attend where I teach. So I get to see them in a different setting, which is special. Education is important to me. I stay very active in all of their schooling and activities. I want them to know that learning matters and that I’m always in their corner.
You became a mom at a young age. How has that influenced how you grandparent?
Being a teenage mom taught me a lot. I’ve learned how to communicate better. I’ve learned that sometimes you don’t have to be so strict—different techniques work better. I’m still firm, but I lead more with understanding now. I listen more. I try to guide, rather than overly correcting.
What do you hope your grandchildren always remember?
First and foremost, they are children of God. I remind them of that all the time. I want them to always do their best, in school, in sports, in life. I want them to walk confidently, knowing who they are. They’re my queens and my king—but more importantly, they belong to Him.
What does gratitude look like in this season of your life?
Gratitude looks like sitting back and watching generations grow. It’s seeing how God has blessed our family. I don’t take any of it for granted.
Bio: La’Tosha Williams has been married to her husband, Kyle, for 12 years. They have built a life together in Montgomery with their four children.
