As a busy mom and realtor, how do you maintain an organized schedule and manage your time well?
Rachel: Planning and prioritizing are essential to stay organized. I’m old school and still use a paper calendar to manage appointments, school events, and family time. I always prioritize my family and ensure I’m available for special moments. My husband and parents are both accommodating. It takes a village.
Serving as the WINGS PTA President at Alabama Christian Academy, how has that role benefited you as a parent?
Rachel: As an alumni, parent and leader, serving as the WINGS PTA President at ACA has been incredibly rewarding. It has allowed me to be more involved in my kids’ school life by connecting with their teachers, other parents, and the ACA community. I’ve gained a deeper understanding of the school’s needs and goals, which has helped me feel more invested in their education. It’s an opportunity to model community involvement and service for my boys, showing them the importance of giving back and being engaged. Serving in this role has strengthened our family connection to ACA and has enriched our overall experience as part of the school community.
What are some goals or hopes for your children as they grow?
Rachel: As my boys grow, I hope they continue to develop a deep, personal relationship with Christ that guides their decisions and shapes their character. I want them to be confident in who they are. I hope they will pursue their dreams while remaining humble and compassionate toward others, and embrace a love of learning.
How has raising two boys, ages 12 and 10, given you a different perspective on life?
Rachel: Having two boys has given me a new perspective on life, especially with patience, purpose, and balance. Most boy moms would agree that boys are energetic, curious, competitive, and sometimes unpredictable, so I’ve learned to let go of perfection and embrace a lot of chaos. As they’ve grown, I’ve learned to slow down and appreciate the little moments—like a family dinner or watching them play sports. There’s no place I’d rather be than with my family. Raising boys is a life full of joy, challenges, and A LOT of love.
How has your relationship with your mother influenced your approach to parenting?
Rachel: My relationship with my mom has profoundly influenced my approach to parenting. She’s been a constant source of love, encouragement, and support throughout my life, and I strive to provide the same for my children. Growing up, she never missed a single field trip, class party, cheerleading, school, or church event, and her presence made me feel valued and deeply loved. Her ability to balance everything with grace, humor, and a big heart has shown me the importance of being fully present for my kids.
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How has being a member of Bible Study Fellowship helped you when you feel overwhelmed as a working mother?
Rachel: It’s been a great support as I navigate the challenges of being a mom and a realtor. It provides valuable time to focus on God’s Word and connect with other women. Reading together deepens our understanding of scripture, strengthens our friendships, and sparks meaningful discussions about faith. It helps me start my day with Jesus and appreciate all the many blessings He has given me.
What has been the most rewarding part of raising your boys?
Rachel: The most rewarding part has been watching them grow into unique individuals. I love seeing their personalities develop; they are smart, funny, artistic, and athletic. I’ve enjoyed watching their interests take shape and how they show kindness to others.
Share your best mom advice with us.
Rachel: Give yourself a lot of grace! As moms, we all want to do everything perfectly. It’s important to remember that motherhood isn’t about perfection. It’s about being present and loving your kids through the ups and downs. Do not be afraid to ask for help when needed, and make time to take care of yourself, too.
Rapid Fire Questions
- What is the funniest word or phrase that your kids use?
Right now, the words I hear most are: “bruh”, “bet” and “sigma.” - If you could do one thing over, what would it be? Balancing my academics and taking better care of myself during college.
- What’s a mom hack that saves you lots of time? Having my boys set out their school uniforms for the entire week on Sunday night.
Rachel Barley is married to Britt Barley, Sr. They have two boys, Britt Jr. (12) and Charles (10), and reside in Montgomery.
