What does a typical day look like as a full-time grandmother to Sarah (17 months old ) and Luke (five months old)?
My days revolve around the kids. We keep them every day while their parents are working, and Sarah attends Mother’s Morning Out at Frazier five days a week for half the day. Outside of that, we’re home—playing, reading, walking, and enjoying simple moments together.
You spend a lot of time outdoors. Why is that important to you?
Being outside is one of our favorite things to do together. Sarah loves swinging, going down the slide, walking around the yard, and chasing bubbles. We also take walks to see the ducks, which she absolutely loves. We have a pool and enjoy swimming when they’re little, and we even have a small playground at home. Those outdoor moments are special—they slow everything down and allow us to enjoy being together.
Your family spans multiple generations, and they help care for one another. What has that been like?
We’re at a stage in life where we’re caring for everyone—our grandchildren, parents, and in-laws. The children’s great-grandparents are very involved. Their great-grandmother is 77, and their great-grandfather is 80; they help keep the kids active. It truly takes a village, and we’re blessed to have one. Our social life looks different now, but that’s okay. This season is about family.
How is grandparenting different from parenting?
It’s completely different. I’m much more self-aware now, and I realize how fast time flies. Every moment counts. Children remember everything, and what they remember most is the time you spend playing with them and the affection you give. As a grandparent, you’re more present. You understand that these moments won’t last forever.
What do you hope your grandchildren remember most about you?
Unconditional love. I devote 100 percent of myself to them. I hope they remember the walks we take, just like the ones my own dad—Sarah and Luke’s great-granddad—used to take with us. More than anything, I want them to grow up knowing they have a loving, supportive family who shows up for them every day.
What lessons have your grandchildren already taught you?
Patience—so much patience. I’m far more patient now than I was when I was a parent. With maturity comes perspective, and I truly savor each stage.
What role does your husband play in this season of life?
I adore my husband. David still works—he’d be bored otherwise—but he plays with the kids, entertains them, and brings so much joy into their lives. Watching him with the grandchildren is one of my greatest blessings.
Any final thoughts on this season of life?
We’re incredibly blessed to have our health, our family, and the opportunity to be so present in our grandchildren’s lives. My husband is my best friend, and we love this crazy life together—being fully present in our grandchildren’s lives, and honored to be known as Lolly/YaYa, and Pop.
Bio: Holly Moore and her husband, David, live in Montgomery and are the proud parents of Lexie Strong (30), married to Ben Strong, and Dixon (23). Holly and David have been married for 32 years and adore their grandchildren.
